VIRGINITY WITHOUT EXTRA OIL
A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from
them simply because they refused to give them
sex. Some even tempted to give away their
virginity just to keep the guys.
Now... Let me be blunt here
Virginity may not be the real reason the guys go
away
Yes , no doubt,there are several guys who want
sex and if they don't get it, they walk away. The
problem may not be with the virgins or sex.
The story of the ten virgins in the bible reveals
that both wise and foolish were virgins. The other
five were not refused seeing the bridegroom
because they were virgins or because they lost
their virginity but because they were foolish. They
were called foolish because they had no EXTRA
OIL.
Most ladies don't have extra oil to sustain any
relationship. Many brag about their virginity, they
do because that is all they have to offer,
forgetting virginity ends the night after wedding,
but extra oil is what will keep the marriage going..
If a guy asks a lady for sex and she says NO, the
man can walk away if what he really wanted was
sex. A man may not come to a lady for sex but
along the line, he may be tempted to ask, if the
lady turns him down, the man may still stay in
the relationship if he sees other things that are
valuable to him, but if he doesn't he will walk
away.
Before you think guys are walking away because
you are a virginity, look inwardly.
Some ladies who brag about virginity are
somewhat timid, some impolite, uncultured and
aggressive. Why would any guy stay with such a
lady?? Some ladies don't have manners or much
thing upstairs, so dull.. Maybe the best thing they
have is their hips, nice back side, big breasts and
nice lips. So when a guys sees all these and wants
sex, if he's turned down he walks away because
there's nothing else interesting about the lady.
Most men are even scared of marrying such
virgins, that's why they want to test before they
discuss marriage because most of them are naive
in bed.
However, you don't need to test to be sure she
will be good. You will know a lady who will be
good at home and bed by her decent
conversation, by her level of knowledge, by her
quest for knowledge and above all by God's
leading.
I know of many ladies who are still virgins, they
have great relationships, you may not know they
are still virgins unless they tell you.
Do not break your virginity because a guy wants
to walk away, unless you don't have anything to
offer in the relationship.
Work to build up virtues.
Virginity is a beautiful thing, but to your virginity
add knowledge, add EXTRA OIL.
And besides this... "giving all diligence, add to
your faith and virtue and to virtue, knowledge
and to knowledge, temperance and to
temperance, patience and to patience, godliness
and to godliness, brotherly kindness, and to
brotherly kindness, charity (2 Peter 1:5-7)
Virginity or no virginity...
Do you have any EXTRA OIL to sustain a
relationship???????
